Tried to PM someone this morning, post is still in the outbox ???
Put my phonenumber in that post, just looked and found out that my phonenumber has become an "ebay item" ???
When I receive a mail that someone has replied or posted something, I follow the link and have to log in.???
When I do that I find myself on the homepage???
What am I doing wrong??? Or what has changed?

On the first point it stays in the outbox until it's read - or that's how I understand it.

Thanks Kurt, that could be correct, I don't know

Yeah what Kurt says ...